It's impossible to capture in these short paragraphs the essence, character and heart of the man I love and respect so deeply - my Dad - so I'll share here two of the important lessons I learned from my father. Love God: Even though Dad was a very
quiet, very humble and very private man, his deep love for God was profoundly
evident. It is difficult to describe, but his faith in Jesus formed the very
structure of his being. Our family began every Christmas morning with a full
worship service led by the six families they birthed, then had an extended time
of sharing where each child, grandchild, great-grandchild and everyone's
spouses would share with "Grandmother and Grandfather" an update on
their life and spiritual status. Dad concluded the service, and in recent
years, his sharing was limited to this: "I want you to read your Bible. I
want each of you to be reading your Bible." He used that special moment
when he had everyone's attention (20-30 people gathered in one circle in their
living room) to share what he knew would be most helpful for each of us. Love people: Dad truly loved and
enjoyed people. Our large family dining table held many friends over the years,
friends who felt as welcome there as family members. He gave himself fully to
scores of individual scouts and explorers throughout his scouting career,
investing deeply into their lives and leading countless young men into manhood.
After he retired from KSC, he volunteered nearly 20 years for Central Brevard
Sharing Center, where his chosen type of service was driving the truck to pick
up donations - so that he could interact personally with the work release
prisoners who accompanied him. In his low-key way, "Mr. Dick" had an
impact on their lives, too. And in our home -a wife he adored and 6 children
and their spouses, children, step-children and so on, all loved with a
bottomless, sacrificial, truly unconditional love. As I've spent these last
days going through family pictures, I've noted how Dad was so happy surrounded
by family, and how he and Mother are so often holding hands or tenderly
relating. My Dad truly fulfilled the
instruction of his Lord Jesus: love the Lord your God with all your heart, with
all your soul, with all your mind and with all your strength. And love your
neighbor as yourself. WELL DONE, GOOD AND FAITHFUL
SERVANT. YOU HAVE BEEN FAITHFUL.... ENTER INTO YOUR MASTER'S REST.
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